I'm 20. I'm on summer break and don't have my own place yet, although I'll be able to get one son because I've been saving
I often run into situations like this one, two days ago: have a date with a girl, she is super responsive to all escalating, I kiss her a few times, then I have to drop her off for the night because both of us are in college and on summer break and I can't bring her to my parents place or hers. She leaves and says she has a really great time. Then I never see or hear from her ever again.
In this case, I waited a day after the date and texted offering to go to a place we'd talked about on the first date. She hasn't responded for a day so I followed up with "or would you prefer something more unique" because she mentioned liking new and unique travel experiences.
This woman was extremely beautiful. A model that travels the world with a lot of wealth. I did get to kiss her and escalate in a lot of other ways, which was nice, but I don't think I'll ever hear from her again. Usually when a girl goes a couple days without interacting after a date, she's done with the guy. Basically, how can I prevent this when I'm in no position to fuck her that night?
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you need to be more creative. The easy solution is fuck her in the car. Or get a motel. There's many options. But i would never bother going on a date if i didnt have a plan of where im gonna fuck her. Otherwise you just get situations like this
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Would it be wrong for me to assume the compliance threshold is much higher in those cases though? I feel like it'd be easier for a woman to agree to "go watch a movie" than to be driven into the woods or an empty parking lot. I've gotten first dates to close at the house plenty of times when she has her own place, but I can't even begin to imagine how I'd get a girl to go to a motel with me
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yea that's why you would baby step it. Start off by getting her alone in the car, then start making out, then start kissing down her neck, that sorta thing. If you get a girl really horny she will agree to a lot more shit
I had sex a bunch in my car when I was your age. As you’re aware if you don’t close on the first date you basically never will see them again. Also my parents had a basement with a bottom floor entrance. When I was in HS and college I would sneak girls in all the time. You have to get creative in your situation
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Yeah, you definitely need to either have sex in the car or get a hotel for a night. But dont tell her this explicitly before the date you just have to see where the night goes.