I get a girl to have a very compliant chat. We soft close a date which she agrees to. Then I ask for her number. And very, very often, I don't hear from them for a day or two. The text I use after the soft close is literally just "cool, what's your #? we can set a date" nothing fancy. Anyway, if I haven't heard from them in a day or 2 I'll just send "?" as a follow up. Then they unmatch
This doesn't happen with every girl. Some give out there number just fine. But I don't understand why they're so compliant and flirty and then when I actually go for the number they disappear. Do I really need to wait like 3 days before following up? Also if it's important, I'm 20. So a lot of the girls I go for are 18-22. Are younger girls more hesitant to giving out their numbers?
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what percentage of the time approximately does this happen? i would say up to 30% is normal. younger girls tend to be more flakey.
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Yea, probably about 20-30%. I get a lot of girls to meet up and some opportunities fall through for other reasons I haven't mastered yet, such as first dates. The girl in question this time was only 19
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yeah man thats totally normal especially for that age range. you just make up for that by doing higher volume.
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Here's the entire interaction
Me: been looking for a cute gym buddy (based on her profile)
Her: hmm well this could work then
Me: so gimme the basics. Tattoos? Major? Good kisser?
Her: 2 tattoos, biology, and a great kisser
Me: sounds like our date will be fun then ;)
Her: Oooo yea?
Me: for sure. Do you prefer coffee or smoothies
Her: Smoothies. I hate coffee.
Me: we should grab smoothies together soon
Her: yes we should
Me: cool, what's your number? We can set a date
Waits a day
Me: ?
And then she unmatched. I'm just very confused because she was so agreeable