well i waited several days and now i have her laughing and we are planning another date. i asked about thursday night. she said - I open (work) Friday and Saturday. if we do something close to home base and not super duper late it should be fine (upside down smiling face).
I was thinking of suggesting her place with a bottle of wine since she doesnt seem to want to go far from it. although ideally she would come to mine because i know its the third date if we don't hookup it most likely will never happen

i tried for drinks at my place and she kinda said yes but wouldn't confirm a day. thats when she suggested me coming with her to the movies. so I thought that was a win instead of waiting a whole week for her to actually be free.
Yea movies isnt usually good. she told me she had to work in the morning so i told her she should probably go (after making out) i just assumed she didnt have time to come to my place. Luckily i have a couple other girls so im not to worried about it. just trying to improve
ill hit her up tomorrow with that. thanks.

ok ill say that tomorrow. Thank you

About half the time im able to get the girl to cum. but the other half of the time only i get off. from what im able to tell it hasnt mattered if i got them off. ive been told recently i give off one night stand vibes so maybe thats part of it

She said she never lets sex happen on the first date but that the second date is different. Her house had her kid at it and my house was about an hour away. I figured the next date would be only 10 minutes away from place and she had agreed to the second date.

I was just seeing if i could improve my text game or to see if i made a texting mistake. I pretty much get the im sick text after every date so im trying to get better

Or like this girl who seemed really into me then ghosted even though i changed plans to accommodate her.

In the last 2 months ive had 3 girls use the "i just ran into someone the other day from my past and i think it could be something special so i want to focus on that" text while we were just texting a few times on the app or over the phone. Another 2 where super into me then ghosted 1 while planning the date and another right before i was gonna set up the date. Another girl after date 1 sat in her car and messaged me a ton of songs and other things we talked about. Then before the second date said she got sick and ghosted. None of these girls are even 8s. they are 6-7s at best.

Yea you are right i use to always be able to close on the first or second date almost every time. I do always go for the kiss but for some reason im hesitant to ask them back to my place now

Yea i have had several gfs. It helps im good looking, confident, tease them, make them laugh, have hobbies and im in pretty good shape. But my filter doesnt always work. to be fair i am a stand up comedian and say some very dark topics on stage. Girls have found my jokes online and canceled dates on me over them too. I have said some bad things to girls in person trying to make a joke and i have watched the light leave their eyes as they dry up and get out as soon as possible lol. I have been working on it though trying to find the right balance.

Yea first girl wasnt into me the entire time. she hugged me so fast and ran away to her car when we were done i was like wtf. she still agreed to a second date which she seemed a little bit more into but just a hug again and quickly turned down a 3rd date. 2nd girl was the 4/10 girl i did that for practice. she ate everything up and we had a pretty good makeout session but i didnt invite her back i thought id set the next date up at my house. She texted me a paragraph when she got home about how much she cant wait to see me again and when i suggested my place she never replied back. 3rd girl was super into me on the first date and 2nd date. but when she texted me after the 2nd date i set up the 3rd date. she agreed then unmatched and deleted her account and is now hanging out with a girl i use to date who sorta hated me because and i qoute "everything you say is a backhanded compliment" I dont think i do that anymore ive worked on it but i know the longer i talk to a girl the more they dislike me