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shy but independent woman

we had our first date almost 2 weeks ago. she was being shy so i took charge and kissed her. we texted a little after that. I set up the next date. she agrees but says shes busy. I told her to cancel here plans since she would have more fun with me. that seemed to work because then she invited me to her plans. then I walked her to her car and she told me to kiss her. she goes to the movies all the time by herself she likes to do things by herself. her- home! thanks for being a movie bum with me =) me - glad you made it. you make a solid movie date ;) her - not too shabby yourself (smirk) me waited until the next day - we should probably do it again then huh. next round Monday but with a little more alcohol than popcorn lol she's told me twice shes free on Mondays so I figured I had enough sway with her to just ask her out on a third date but now its been 3 days since she read it. i should have waited longer to ask her. I'm thinking I just hit her with "I hope the aliens didn't abduct you"

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Girl is difficult to get out

She responds to almost every message i send quickly and she likes almost every message i send but she will not commit to plans. ill start when i try to make plans me "it is a secret...but i might be persuaded to share it depending if you are free sometime this week" her - lemme check the baseball schedule!! me - ok sounds good her - awesome opossum me - glad we are on the same page miss opossum. hmm thats going in my phone as your nickname now lol (next day) her - hahaha yasss. my last non releasable actually just died he was the best me - sorry to hear about the little guy. im sure some tacos and great company could help though her - that does sound nice me - well let me know what day works for you and we'll raise a glass for Fred the opossum her - lol his name is Mac do i just leave it? she wont make plans. now she isnt even acknowledging them anymore. seems like shes just wasting my time at this point. if i ask again for her schedule that would be weird and pushy. i dont want to become her penpal either. idk how to keep this going towards a date

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6mo ago

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After a date text

So ive been crushing it lately and going on dates and having sex after. The girls seem to love everything. My only problem is the second date or hookup. It seems almost impossible to get them out again. btw my message after the first date and or hook up is. We might have to do that again. let me know when you get free and we will make a plan what else do i say? or is that ok?

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8mo ago

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Girl wanted to see me again but then ghosted

First date went great. She asked me to stay longer so we hung up for another 2 hours. We made out twice and she literally did a happy dance lol it was cute. She texted me later that day she had a great time. I agreed. she followed me on TikTok and snap. I followed her back. The below pictures seem like she really did want to meet up again but then she ghosted, I waited 3 days to double text her. Her dating account is deleted as of yesterday so before the newest message I sent. I'm not sure how much more persistent I can be. I'm also just confused why I was ghosted after what was such a high level of interest. If there are any tips or insight someone could show me that would be great. Actually, really liked this girl

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9mo ago

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New girl was super into me than flakes

She followed me on IG, FB, and Tiktok. we sent a few messages back and forth on IG i asked her out there was a lot of banter and some sexting. We went on our date and when it was done she asked if we could keep hanging out. We went to her place and we made out although she seemed hesitate to do that so i didn't push it. she refused to get closer to me on the couch too. pic 1 - she sent me a song she had talked about that night the next morning. pic 2 - she sent me a nude pic 3 - she ghosted twice after i responded to her nude. once on tuesday and another time on wednesday after she kinda texted good morning. pic 4 - she sent me a reel on IG wednesday after ghosting me on text. pic 5 - at this point she had stopped bantering and flirting but i still asked her on a date and she said yes pic 6 - she said shes kinda sick and we can reschedule next week (ive seen this message a million times so i doubt it will happen) no flirting and some banter. I feel like shes lost all interest after she sent the nude. What could i have done better?

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1y ago

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Girls flaking out every time

I have noticed that a girl will say yes to my first date or to my second date. Then as soon as the text messages from both of us dry up or i dont text back within 24 hours they ghost or cancel saying they got sick or something. Even though before that they were sending over their favorite songs after the first date or sending smiles in every text before that. I cant keep texting them 24 /7 I have other things to do and sometimes i just run out of things to say over text. Do i need to let them know im busy? i never tell anyone im busy i just do stuff and get back to people when i can

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Trying to connect through the dog but i feel like im losing it

my ideas to reply with are She sounds a lot like my dog Athena. I bet they would get along Well tell Maisie that her owner is pretty cute Cute name we should get our dogs together for a play date --- is what playing with fire text app said to say

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1y ago

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Followed Corey waynes advice and it hasnt worked at all

The advice is after the first date once a woman reaches out you instantly set up another date. results from this have been girl was super into me on first date and happily agreed to the second. she reached out to me when she got home and i tried to set up a third date and she waited days to reply and agree to the date. Then sometime later that day she deleted her whole account and blocked me. another girl who was like a 4 maybe reached out as soon as the date was done and about how fun i was and she couldn't wait to see me again. so i set up the second date and she never replied to that i have gotten way better success when i said it was fun then waited a few days to try and set up the next date or even sometimes the girl will set it up because they cant wait. so im gonna go back to that

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1y ago

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You know she isnt feeling it on the first date

First time in my life i could tell this girl was not interested as soon as i walked into the bar for our date. My ego wanted to get her to like me a bit. But should i have just ended it right then? What would you guys do if a girl gives you very little to no level of interest on a date no matter what you do

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2y ago

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2nd date cheek kiss

I probably already know the answer to this but fuck it. went out on two dates with this girl. We seem to vibe really well together. she leaned into me several times and we both brushed up against each other a few times. lots of laughs etc. she was also easy to get out on the second date and excited from her texts. I do get the feeling she is very careful dating due to her 11 year old. She even told me she barely goes on dates because of it. Regardless she still turned her head while we hugged, and I could only kiss her on the cheek then she walked away. on the second date. usually if i don't kiss or have sex by the second date it's over. I'm assuming, she isn't interested but she made some suggestions about other places we could go on future dates so now I'm a bit confused. I'll give it until Tuesday and shoot her a call. Might as well try for another date. if not its fine there will always be someone else

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