I have noticed that a girl will say yes to my first date or to my second date. Then as soon as the text messages from both of us dry up or i dont text back within 24 hours they ghost or cancel saying they got sick or something. Even though before that they were sending over their favorite songs after the first date or sending smiles in every text before that. I cant keep texting them 24 /7 I have other things to do and sometimes i just run out of things to say over text. Do i need to let them know im busy? i never tell anyone im busy i just do stuff and get back to people when i can
Question
5 Comments
5 Cmts
1y ago
M
83 Posts (+17), 92 Cmts (+13)
83 Posts (+17), 92 Cmts (+13)
Or like this girl who seemed really into me then ghosted even though i changed plans to accommodate her.
1
2
3
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
This is just an unfortunate part of the game. Stuff like this happens to everyone, including me. I don't think it has anything to do with your response time unless you are taking like weeks. This is why I go so hard on the takeaways. For instance in this situation a week after sending your last text I'd say
"I genuinely didn't take you for the flaky type"
You can send that now as well