I have noticed that a girl will say yes to my first date or to my second date. Then as soon as the text messages from both of us dry up or i dont text back within 24 hours they ghost or cancel saying they got sick or something. Even though before that they were sending over their favorite songs after the first date or sending smiles in every text before that. I cant keep texting them 24 /7 I have other things to do and sometimes i just run out of things to say over text. Do i need to let them know im busy? i never tell anyone im busy i just do stuff and get back to people when i can
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In the last 2 months ive had 3 girls use the "i just ran into someone the other day from my past and i think it could be something special so i want to focus on that" text while we were just texting a few times on the app or over the phone. Another 2 where super into me then ghosted 1 while planning the date and another right before i was gonna set up the date. Another girl after date 1 sat in her car and messaged me a ton of songs and other things we talked about. Then before the second date said she got sick and ghosted. None of these girls are even 8s. they are 6-7s at best.
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Bro, what you are describing is literally just a part of the dating process. Yes, girls would sometimes randomly stop responding and it doesn't matter how hot or not hot they are. Your texting is actually pretty decent. I think you just gotta close a little faster and start aggressively using takeaways like I teach