So, a couple weeks ago I matched with a particularly cool girl on tinder. Got her over to my place for a movie night, and things went very well. We instantly made a connection and had fun banter throughout the night, followed by an intense make out session, among other things. It's probably important to note that we did not have sex. Follow up texts after the date went smoothly, but due to logistical reasons we have not been able to link up since then. The general vibe of our conversations have been very positive: her sending me memes on insta, commenting on my stories, suggesting that we get together when she's back from vacation, etc. To preface, in the past I have had a big problem with chasing the girl after the first few meetups, I have certainly gotten better with this issue over the past year, but I still struggle with it. I haven't talked to this girl in four days. Today I had the passing thought, am I going too far over to the other side of the spectrum in an effort to not come off as chasing? My question is, where is the line? The balance between chasing the girl and absence to the point where the girl begins to think you've lost interest, particularly in the early stages. I ask both in regards to the particular situation that I am in, and in the general sense.