Shit test or an underlying concern?
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Interesting curveball that I wasn't expecting. For context, I got drinks with this girl a week ago. Flirting, escalation, vibe was on point. Ended up eating her out and getting some head. Hit her up today and got this back, having trouble reading between the lines on it. Any ideas?
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I'm never really a fan of trying to close flat footed, unless I have banged the girl a few times. What I mean is I usually go for some sort of emotional spike/quick back and forth vibing before asking her for a day 2 (although I don't know what your texts were previous to this SS). Just gets her in a better overall state imo.
She seems to be giving you some shit here, she tossed in a winky face, so I would reply with something similar back.
Alex has a good video about setting up day 2s. Specifically when he wasn't able to bang them on the first date. It's funny I remember his example, started off pretty much exactly like this, with the girl giving him some shit early on in the text convo.
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Typically after you fuck a girl it's pretty simple to go for round 2 so you probably didn't give her a memorable experience. Is there a specific reason you only did oral and didn't fuck her?
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Sloppiness on my part. Forgot a condom, she wasn't cool with going raw.
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Ah then she prob just doesn't see you as a "good option". Cute girls have lots of options and why would she wanna mess around with oral again when she knows she can get good dick somewhere else. You lost some points in her book and it's gonna be hard to recover.
If you gave her the best she's ever had, she wouldn't need to "think about it". If you look at Alex's love reports you can see how enthusiastic the girls are about going for round 2. In your situation you need to do some digging and get her to admit her "concern" about having mediocre sex again and then address it. She's not going to chase if you like the message in this situation because you didn't address her concern. I would playfully call her out and say "no you won't ;)" or "what do you need to 'think' about". Good luck
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Why didn't you try to get head. Im looking at the thought of just going down on a chick and getting nothing in return. It's like Jonah hill in that one movie
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She may be testing if you're needy bro. You can like the message and just go about your life and let her come to you.