Oh boy it’s possible but there’s still time before the panic alarm. Fingers crossed lol.

Last year it was active but 3 years ago it was very active. And Alex also commented on every post. It was cool. I just got on again so it’s good to know there’s still active people.

And glad to hear it man. Hope you have fun. Let me know how it goes!

I haven’t been on this site in like a year but I feel like a 14 hour ago post would’ve had a few comments by now. Is there not much traffic on this site anymore? Cause I’m back into dating and I’m looking to use this again lol

To answer your question you could go that route but if she’s depressed maybe she’s not in the mood to talk sexy. Maybe just hit her with “I like the sound of that 😏”

Bro that’s what I’m saying lol big red flag. I wasn’t gonna make her split the bill anyway but the fact that she had to make it known is weird. Like what kinda dates is she used to going on?

I think I might do that, are you talking about the Ryan Gosling meme in Spanish? Cause I’ve already texted her “hola linda” and “hola chica” before.

Part of me doesn’t want to give her the power to ghost me but I think I don’t have a choice but to reengage in text. I was hoping to run into her at the gym but it’s hard to time it right.

If she wasn’t so hot I would take the red flag and run. But in this case I’ll ignore the red flag to have a chance to hit and quit

Yeah I guess I dodged a bullet but I’m curious to know what dat mouf do. She’s just really hot and has a public instagram where there’s half naked pics and thirst traps like crazy on there.

I’m no simp so when she started to get red flaggy and defensive I just kept my abundance mindset and didn’t take her out that night.

But now part of me is like damn I’d still like to hit and quit. Nothing to take seriously.

I’m wondering if my ghosting actually pissed her off and now she’s interested in me more for my carelessness.

I thought about shooting her a text message but I don’t want to give her the power of ghosting me. But I guess I have no choice. Hoping I run into her one day at the gym but that’s hit or miss.

I can see your point.

But okay let’s pretend I say that. What do you think her excuse will be for ghosting me?

What am I supposed to accomplish out of the conversation? Ask her out for a drink again?

I take it she ghosted me for a reason. It’s gonna be an uphill battle to bring her back in I think.

Yeah you’re right I’ll keep it chill. Thanks. Don’t wanna make anything weird. Plenty of other fish in the sea anyway

This is a cool strategy. Do the girls ever catch on that it’s not your place? What if they wanna go back over and someone else has it?

I recently moved in with my mom while she’s going through chemo. Initially I stopped dating but now I’m over the stress and been getting out there. But it’s kinda hard for me to bring girls over. I usually just go to their place after some drinks and apps.

2 girls I dated lived with their parents so it was hard. One of the girls I took to a motel. The other girl I took to the park and we fucked in my car. Both of them were way harder to get the lay than the girls that had their own place. And if I had my own place it would be way easier and less “implications” that a motel gives.

Yeah. Can you update OP?

Awesome advice, thanks! Feels like a chore now is a great way to put it