Do you guys ever just pause tinder for a while? How do you deal with time management?
Ever since I split with my ex I been going crazy on this app. Just trying to fill the void I guess. But I feel like I waste a lot of time pulling tail. And for some reason it’s like after I have sex I just lose interest in these chicks. I’d rather get with someone new rather than spin the same plates. But it’s time consuming to get with someone new.
I’ve gotten better at what to say and copy and pasting the same witty replies that seem to work on everyone lol. But I still spend time swiping and replying to messages. Then number closing and have separate text messages to keep track of.
Then there’s the date that takes time. Then hanging out at their place takes time. Then sex takes like 2 minutes lol jk . Then pillow talk takes time.
I feel like I could be spending that time focusing on a skill to start a business or learning another language or picking up MMA or something useful.
I guess the skill I’m improving is game and sex which is important but I feel like the ROI isn’t that much.
I think I’m addicted to tinder and it’s interfering with my gym progress and sleep schedule.
How often do you guys go out with girls?

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Yeah. This happens to everyone. Once we've mastered the ability to get sex, it gets boring and feels like a chore. I would suggest taking a break but not a crazy one. Space out your dates instead of trying to have them back to back. Focus on truly getting to know a girl before you sleep with her. And so on
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Awesome advice, thanks! Feels like a chore now is a great way to put it