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Damage Control - Need help recovering.

Having great convo. As you can see by timestamps, she was replying super fast. She even agreed to grab coffee earlier. But then I said "Damn I didn't realize you're this cool" and she instantly stopped replying. She obviously saw the message. I should've thought a little before sending that since I realize now it came off as a backhanded insult. She seemed super playful so I didn't think it would do any harm. If I had just sent the other message about us having so much in common, I think I would've been fine. I obviously don't wanna just say "sorry" or "hope that didn't come off the wrong way" but how would you guys suggest following up on that?

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Is she crazy or did I do something wrong

Matched on Tinder last night, hit it off. Responding super fast and agreed to a date tomorrow. She seemed eager and said how she's super free before the new year. She happily gave me her number asking me to text her. We exchanged a couple texts today with her saying how one of her cats belongs to her roommate. Before I even had a chance to respond(busy at work), she texted 50 minutes later sending me this weird text about still liking some guy at work. I just gave it a thumbs up. Honestly, It's funny as hell. I know it's done and there's nothing I can do but was it something I said wrong on my end? There's nothing left to say here right? Just want some thoughts.

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Very tricky one here, how do i reply

Hit her with my opening, prematurely went for the date without investment. After tripple texting, I got her to reply again only for her to call me unoriginal at the end. Whats a good reply to her? I was thinking of reply to my initial opening of what I find interesting about her pics since I do have a good answer for that. I could say "still wanna know what I find interesting?". Is there a better response you guys would recommend

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Milf Bad Text Game. Possible to salvage?

Never texted a milf before. Doesn't seem interested anymore but I'm wondering if there's anything I can say now to potentially this. Or what you guys would advise going forward when texting an older woman(she's 20 years older). Alex doesn't really make videos on texting Milfs. Also, between the first two screenshots, she also said something about the necklace just being her aunts(forgot to include in screenshot).

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Lazy text game recover

So I sent her a cheesy line and she responded with "oh gosh" and a facepalm emoji. But she also added "that was a good one". It then goes into my facepalming in person message and her saying "LMAO" (as shown in the screenshot). I then asked if I can be honest(bad move since its usually better as an opener), and I then proceed to lazily ask her out on a date. It was super abrupt and not smoothly woven into the conversation like Alex emphasizes(and how I usually do). It was also a bad move because I didn't have enough investment from her. My double text also failed. I have two questions. 1) For next time, when a girl says "lol" or "lmao"(like I highlighted with the red circle), what's a good go-to response? 2)I know it's probably over and I blew it but if I do wait a week to reengage, is there anything I could say to potentially salvage this? I was thinking of hitting her up with a voice note asking how her exams are(since it is exam season). Thoughts?

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