Matched on Tinder last night, hit it off. Responding super fast and agreed to a date tomorrow. She seemed eager and said how she's super free before the new year. She happily gave me her number asking me to text her. We exchanged a couple texts today with her saying how one of her cats belongs to her roommate. Before I even had a chance to respond(busy at work), she texted 50 minutes later sending me this weird text about still liking some guy at work. I just gave it a thumbs up. Honestly, It's funny as hell.
I know it's done and there's nothing I can do but was it something I said wrong on my end? There's nothing left to say here right? Just want some thoughts.
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41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)
Women are always confused. They are emotional by nature. To be honest she probably was texting you for attention. She was probably horny for some you know what. And she got what she wanted. Had some post nut clarity and realized she didn’t need you. This has happened to me multiple times. I would he stay say “You’re weirder than I thought” or “Girls are weird.” You gotta play the game with these women or you’re gonna lose every single fucking time.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Nothing left to say. I would have actually said "Cool. I think you got the wrong idea. I'm not trying to get into a full on relationship with you or something. Just casually grab a drink and see if we vibe. Do you typically romanticize things pretty quickly?"
This would have made her feel silly and gotten her to actually go on a date with you. The like was bad because this puts you in an insensitive position that you can't come back from. You can always send the text i suggested anyway
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Nah, you didn't do anything.
Depending on what your plan is though, you could still pursue her, especially if you're more interested in just hooking up. Something like "This would be anti-climatic to leave things here. I don't see the harm in going on a date and seeing how the chemistry is"
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Yeah, I'd delete the convo and move on.
You didn't do anything wrong. It's more to do with her situation - not you. But it's good on her that she was totally honest about it instead of ignoring you.