Posts by Tobias Ott
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Hey Guys i always try to play it safe and thus ending up too boring in text. What helped you to play it more risky? I struggle to know wether I can be more sexual/straight to the point with a girl or have to slow down/be more indirect •what are some typical indicators from her profile that makes it easy to know which route to go?
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*Her: i have my period with heavy abdominal pain *Me: you want to do it on another day then? *Her: yes #usually i would say: "ok let me know when you feel better and we set another day." But out of my experience girls rarely ever reinitiate the Convo for setting up a new date
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I am making plans with a girl right now. She wanted to come over spontaneously but got tired. I asked when else she is free. She said: "probably weekend" Whats a good response? *What about Friday 8pm? *Let's just write on Thursday for concrete plans
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i asked her the basics question: "any crazy ex ́s, tattoos or extraordinary talents?" Her: "ähm yeah😂😂😂 same question to you" *do you insist that she answers the question or do you just tell her your bascis? i feel i would fall into her frame then. how should i react?
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I matched with a girl for the second time. First time 6 weeks ago and deleted the app 4 weeks ago. Downloaded it again and matched with her again yesterday. The convo back then somewhat fizzled out • What would be a good opener? what about: "here we go again, we have to make sure we do better this time;)"
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If you already had a date with kiss no sex and she already agreed to a second date but 3 days later when I reinitiated the convo all of a sudden i only get cold short answers, no questions back no emojis. Do you ever call her out in a sense like: "what's up you seem like in a bad mood?"
29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)
