Second Date how to respond?

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T

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29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)

Just asked her when she is free this week (i know she is only free on Saturday)
Me: so when are your free this week?
Her: i don't know it yet

*What does it depend on?
*Let it on seen and reinitiate a week later

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E

57 Posts (+12), 282 Cmts (+81)

That's usually a pretty bad sign after a first date, but don't send her either one of those, send "I’m busy too. But I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to"

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T

29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)

Actually she didn't really point out that she is busy or has any obstacles...
Still go for it?

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E

57 Posts (+12), 282 Cmts (+81)

I know what you're getting at but honestly, in my experience, it's always better to make her tell you when she's free than to suggest a day even if you think she would be free then. Just the fact that she claims to not know means she has at least some hesitation about going out with you again. So yeah, I'd still send her that.

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T

29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)

Ok thank you👌

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T

29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)

i let it on read since last Wednesday March 17th. What would be a good way to reopen her? i used the ryan gosling meme to much...

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

"Who would know"

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S

26 Posts (+4), 16 Cmts (+4)

This happens a lot to me too but mostly when I fail to escalate on the first date. Did you get physical with her on the first date?

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T

29 Posts (+26), 23 Cmts (+2)

Yeah i was even too pushy i guess. Maybe I handled the LMR not properly

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