This was from a very short in-person interaction, at party, there was definitely a sexual element to it at the time. In before "Stop the game-y stuff" regarding "you might be a kidnapper", yup it slipped my mind at the time. My question is regarding, after she seemed pretty antsy to find out what my "r rated" relaxation techniques are, why did it feel like it dropped flat right after. Could be that she was just expecting "more" but I played it a bit safe, or maybe the entire pacing is off. She lives pretty far out so I'm not that keen to meet up but good practice anyway.