Context: I was texting a girl on a Asian dating app called Dil Mil. I would appreciate some advice. In the girl's bio she wrote "if you think I'm crazy you should meet my twin." Also she was wearing a fish nets t-shirt in her first pic. The conversation is short and is written out below.
Me: Hey (girsl name) do you even roti?
(sent on Jan 12)
Girl: Yes, yes I do
(she liked my note and sent response on June 3rd)
Me: I know I took much longer than usual to respond. (girls name) makes rotis and wears fish nets very unique. I bet you enjoy watching '2 states' on repeat and eating spicy sambar dosa, am I close?
(sent on July 18)
Girl: You got me at spicy sambar dosa
(sent on July 18)
Me: But how much spicier than your crazy twin are we talking?
(sent on July 18th)
Self-analysis:
In the first line I'm testing a new openers (and yes I'm Indian). Surprisingly the girl responses a couple months later (lol). Then I take a month to respond back (just because I'm not that interested). At this point I was using this as an opportunity to practice my text game so I write "I know I took much longer than usual to respond". I find that by stating the obvious the girl's compliance increases (and is more likely to text back). Then I try to tailor the rest of the text to her profile picture. I saw she was wearing a fish-net t-shirt in her first pic, so I try to sexualize the conversation by using that to my advantage. Then to carry things forward by adding two trends to the conversation. The first trend is '2 states' which is a hindi movie. And the other trend, was south indian food called sambar dosa. Right hear I add a subtlety by describe the sambar as "spicy" (again I wrote this with the intent of sexualizing the conversation). Again she complies and writes "You got me at spicy sambar dosa" (she took the bait). At this point I was clueless on how to sexualize the conversation further in a calibrated fashion, so I noticed in her bio it states "if you think I'm crazy you should meet my twin." So I try to tie her bio with the spicy food (lol). And say "But how much spicier than your crazy twin are we talking?". What would be a better response than what I made? And now that I made this mistake how can I recover from it?
