Urgent Help Needed: Girl Won't Stop Texting Me

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N

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Hello Alex and Guys, I would greatly appreciate your perspective.

I feel like I'm being too logical. How do I keep the conversation moving forward with fun and light-hearted talk? Any topic suggestions to find out more about her personality? I've been on only a zoom date with her, given that see lives in south America

What's the next logically step after a zoom date? Is it a second zoom date?

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J

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Dude I am going to agree with Jadon.

  1. why are you doing zoom dates with a chic in another country or continent? Are you going there in the next 2 weeks? If not match with people locally until you are because like what are you trying to accomplish? I mean long distance sucks. This borderline feels like you're trolling, 2nd zoom date? wtf

  2. girls just put exclamations in texts for no reason if they want to show interest, its like another version of a emoji (as Kat mentioned). You gotta let things go. You made nothing into an issue for no reason.

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N

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I appreciate your point of view

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K

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Why are you mad about the exclamation mark and then randomly say stop texting me?
I am a latina woman and we usually put an exclamation point to show enthusiasm/excitement. We tend to be very happy, friendly, and feminine.

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N

4 Posts (+1), 21 Cmts (+1)

Thanks for the clarity

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K

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you are acting way too logical by bringing up the issue of exclamation mark again and again

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N

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why do girl put exclamation marks ?

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N

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If someone could explain the meaning a exclamation marks at the end of a women sentence that would be great - these exclamation marks are annoying me

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avilench . Avatar

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Bro. Your texting here is super bizarre in so many different ways. You're telling her that she's pissed off but she's literally answering your question. Also, the questions you're asking are pretty odd and nonsensical. Like you're asking her why she's not skiing in the summer time lol

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J

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Hey nick. I understand that these morons have the lack of brain . They’re assuming that you’re mad. Or worried about why you’re far away. Sometimes these idiots don’t answer the question so I’m going to help you.

First of all if you are going to South America. Just build comfort for now for example. Favorite bands . Favorite sports. You know things in common and just build on that so she can have an emotional connection. Offer value. If she has never been where you are from share a cool picture near a cool place you are from that she’s never seen .
Assume the best if she didn’t reply to your question just keep moving on. Right now I’d say establish comfort and keep things a sentence or two .

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N

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I appreciate your encouragement

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