yeah man better to post full text thread to show context, sometimes going for the close too soon isn't the right move.
But as far as your text, I wouldn't have sent that. As the man you have to lead, not ask the girl when, ideally you want the girl asking that kind of stuff
But you can just wait a few days and hit her with
"dont think too hard now"
Keep us updated, good luck
M
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Gotcha thanks. There's only about a page or two of banter before this. I suppose I did try to close a bit early. I may want to remove "speaking of, when is that by the way" from my arsenal. A few chicks have loved it but I do see how it makes me seem weak.
Still haven't heard back. I'll wait another day and reengage
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You don't ask when is the date. You get her to ask you. She never even agreed to the soft close. You have to first get her to agree to the idea of meeting up. And then go for the hard close. Take a look at some of the videos on guides on texting on the yt and my free website