How to respond to "I have many kinks"? without turning it up to 100
31 Posts (+0), 60 Cmts (+22)
I want to acknowledge the effort she made toward actually answering the "kinks" part -- a lot of chicks just ignore that part. However, there would be an incongruence if I followed up with one of Alex's full-blown lines about spanking, oral and edging her and stuff -- I'm not that experienced and I wouldn't be able to follow that sort of line up. I'd fuck it up soon afterwards. Plus my profile isn't overtly sexual.
How can use her green light toward sexualizing more, but a bit more slowly?
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Something off top of my head, you can combine your kink and prison as one.
list your hobbies, list tattoos then add something like "never been to prison but I do enjoy using handcuffs in the bedroom š"
see if she bites off some light sexualizing
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
"Damn. Been a troublemaker even in your early days I see" And then answer these questions back
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I wouldn't go into her kinks right now. If you ignore all the other information she gave you about herself, you'll come across as thirsty.
Here's what I'd do:
riff of of one her answers, or at least acknowledge one. "I love a girl with tattoos, I have X myself" / "isn't that a little young to rob a bank?" / whatever interests you most
Then I would answer the questions - say "I enjoy taking control in the bedroom" for the kinks part and let her become curious. it should escalate from there.
lmk how it goes!
31 Posts (+0), 60 Cmts (+22)
Thanks. Mostly responded to her other stuff but mentioned the bedroom in one line. Seems to be a good balance at this point in the conversation.