I’ll try keep this short. Need help with what to Message a chic I’ve had sex with twice. Met this chick Friday, hit it off and went back to her place with her and her friends. Slept with her the same night for approx an hour and she claims to have finished, complimenting my oral skills. (This was my first time) I leave 10m after as she falls asleep. Message her the following night and we make plans to see each other again sometime in the week. Sunday night I’m out with friends drinking and dancing and accidentally bump into her again. She immediately starts grinding on me, friend practically forces us together and we make out. We go back to hers and have sex, but it was bad. 2 hrs, no one finished (potentially the booze) and it just wasn’t working for either of us. Eventually we cuddle and fall asleep. I choose to stay because I thought it might redeem the sex a bit, so I leave the following morning after spending the night. Fwb/potentially relationship would be ideal but I’m not sure what/when to message her after this bad sexual experience. Any ideas?