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Comments by George Kresswell

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I would try and reframe the conversation. You shouldn't have texted "So you gonna block me again or give this another shot" because if she was gonna block you she would have already done it and it puts her in a position of power over you and makes you seem desperate.

You need to figure out what her concern is and address that. Hard to give advice without seeing the other screenshots. If she had concerns over the meetup only being for sex address that emotionally and dismiss it.

If she is simply creeped out by your previous messages then try to emotionally address her last message reasoning that from what you gathered over the phone call you had chemistry and you would like to further explore this over the phone and get to know her. Avoid making it sound butthurt tho.

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"Clearly you haven't been with right men then" - Just an idea

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I'm assuming you have had sex other wise that text doesnt make any sense.

In which case, I'd just be blunt and say "the sex"

Generally for shit tests:
-Flip them on her
-Misinterpret her q
-Use humour

However I don't think these are the right approaches for this situation

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My 4 strats for increasing investment are:

  • Make convo relevant to her. Things she can relate to/is interested in
  • Increase your percieved value - give impression that you live a cool lifestyle
  • Use takeaways - use these to reframe the conversation
  • Use mix of sexual flirty and fun banter/humour to engage

You could hit her with a takeaway: "Are you always this talkative?" or "Love the enthusiasm" or "Ah a woman of many words"
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Try to make convo relevant to her by asking a relevant interesting question or use info in her bio to do a cold read

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I'd add a couple activity photos and replace photos 4 and 5.

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Thanks! Went with “Oh damn. Imagining you in a hot white blouse and a black mini skirt rn”

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By reframing I mean: Currently it looks like she is busy/not interested
If you wait a day or so and then just say that you have been super busy with work thats why you havent been texting as much; you are reframing the conversation. I would then try get a 2nd date organised ASAP whilst the interaction is still somewhat warm but try slide it in smooth rather than straight up asking for it.

This only works if you're not acting super needy over text already which might be another reason shes giving you the cold shoulder

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"If you're too nervous, I'd understand"

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PWF suggests
A thought I recently had in the shower: "You don't even wanna know"
Its quite polarising but works if that what you are looking for

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If you look at on eof PWF's vids, he explains what might have happened here. If you dont sleep with her or at least make out on the first date she might come to the conclusion that she doesn't like you or prefers you as a friend over relationship material. It's possible she wanted a lot more than just hand holding and touches.

I'd suggest reframing and making it seem like you are the one who is really busy and make plans to see her again soon.

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