Posts by Juan Vidal
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context: went on a date w this girl, vibes were great and she pulled me in for a kiss at the end. We live abt 1hr from each other and are graduating soon. She came to me the first time, should suggest I go to her next? or is this a dead end? @[avilench .]
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context: been talking to one of the hottest girls at my school since December when we went on break. When I got back we went out on 2 dates and made out heavily but never fucked (in part because i didn’t want to rush things—dumb, ik) Anyway, this girl can be a pain in the ass and is super slow at texting. On her birthday i gave her a funny card, and left her a voicemail but she never replied. Days later I gave her the “ultimatum.” Is this a lost cause? should I just cut my losses and bounce? or what should I say next to ignite attraction again? tx in advance to anyone that took the time to read and help out!
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Met this hot girl at the club and we exchanged contacts. She’s dominant, and she ignored my first text but this was her reply after I followed up... we haven’t built up enough rapport so I don’t feel like the reply: “I’ll make sure to spank the sarcasm out of you” would apply here . How should I reply to this? Thanks in advance!!
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Should I just re-assure her? I get this a lot and it’s annoying to deal with. On one hand, I’m not opposed to something serious if the vibe and girl is right, but I’m also not against hookups. What’s the best way to answer this? Thanks in advance
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Context: been trying to meet up w this girl but logistics have been tough and she hit me with the “I’m busy” objection which we all know is bs and I just have to show more value. How can I transition from this? As always, appreciate the feedback in advance
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Matched w her on tinder, she was quick to point out she wants something long-term. She is sassy but very much my type. We switched to text and I’m trying to go for the close. Should I build more investment first, how do I turn this around? Appreciate the help fam
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