Matched with this girl on tinder and have been texting back and forth. She flaked once (she was sick) but has been going cold since. Appreciate the help in advance!
Some responses
[Tease + Joke]: “yeah I saw you at subway. You put a lot of effort into those sandwiches” (would be better imo if you could shorten it. I’m tryna be fast)
[Praise + Tease]: yeah I’ve noticed how hard you’ve been working. If you couldn’t afford (blank) for our date you could have just told me (it’s a longer msg. Brevity is a tactic of it’s own so bear that in mind)
[Command] “Your job doesn’t matter, come here jezebel” (this is a sexual text so use it if you think you can. Don’t know how this girl responds to sexualization. At the bare minimum it should throw her off and get her to respond)
Feedback:
Personally HATE and never use the I want or asking frame(after re-reading it’s not that bad what you said but I persist). I always tell the girl what is gonna happen or how things are (very matter of factly). You come off a very slightly lame for a lack of a better word as a result of this “I wanna see you” frame imo.
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Some responses
[Tease + Joke]: “yeah I saw you at subway. You put a lot of effort into those sandwiches” (would be better imo if you could shorten it. I’m tryna be fast)
[Praise + Tease]: yeah I’ve noticed how hard you’ve been working. If you couldn’t afford (blank) for our date you could have just told me (it’s a longer msg. Brevity is a tactic of it’s own so bear that in mind)
[Command] “Your job doesn’t matter, come here jezebel” (this is a sexual text so use it if you think you can. Don’t know how this girl responds to sexualization. At the bare minimum it should throw her off and get her to respond)
Feedback:
Personally HATE and never use the I want or asking frame(after re-reading it’s not that bad what you said but I persist). I always tell the girl what is gonna happen or how things are (very matter of factly). You come off a very slightly lame for a lack of a better word as a result of this “I wanna see you” frame imo.