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Sometimes I feel like I escalate too fast. But sometimes when I carry on the conversation she just gets bored and ghosts anyways, that is if I’m not moving the interaction towards a date. Maybe I suck at building investment. Anyways, what’s the best move for this objection?
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
A common problem I encounter is what to say after the open. Often times I’ll open with “I guess this means we’re dating now” or “hey potential lover” then she’ll respond. Then I’ll ask something like “how’s your week” I get ghosted a lot after this. It’s really hard to come up with anything other than that because it feels like I have very little to work with. Any advice/lines to follow the first few opening texts? Thanks 🙏🏾
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
So a girl sends me this wild text which I’m not used to, and I didn’t know if she was baiting me to see if I’d get all down bad or actually interested. I feel like instead I should have said something like, “depends, are you submissive?” But now I think I’ll get ghosted. In the future, what’s a good line when a girl comes right off the bat like this so I don’t fumble next time?
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
Girl I cold approached said she “wants to get to know me better first” before meeting. I met her in the library and we had a nice chat and flirted a bit. She texts me but she takes a day to respond like how tf as I supposed to get to know her like this? It was going well so I went for the close because I wanted to get things moving forward, then she gave this objection. Should I try to get her on the phone? She can’t expect me to wait days for her to respond and also expect to get to know me, not to mention thru texting. At this point I might just move on and focus on other more down girls. Any ideas?
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
So I approached another girl on my campus who I’ve been texting for a couple weeks. She’s responsive and friendly so far. I asked her out and she says she’s down to hangout and be my friend but isn’t looking for a relationship rn (and neither am I lol but she’s hot and I’m tryna smash). How should I proceed? Should I go out with her and just try to seduce as usual or is this likely a waste of time? This feels similar to situations like when a girl said she “won’t have sex on the first date” but she was just testing me.
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
So I’ve been texting this girl I met at my college, who I approached in the library. She seemed super into me, laughing at everything I was saying. I ended up getting her insta, and have been texting for the last two weeks. Thing is, she takes a day minimum to respond, but not too low investment. We had a date loosely planned for last Monday, but when I continued to text (to flirt/confirm) she didn’t respond until today (Saturday). She apologized and said she was just really busy (understandable because it’s finals I guess). My question is: How do I text to a girl who takes forever to respond when I’m trying to set up a date? Should I do a call out? Try to get her number? Try to just continue to banter? Give up? Just annoying bro.
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
BTW In my voice memo I teased her if she was working 24/7 or had an evening free. She seemed interested but every time I try to move to a date she comes up with excuses. She isn’t low investment so this is confusing, it seems like at least she’s trying but it also seems like she’s just trying to be polite and not reject me outright? Idk bro, any help is appreciated, but if y’all say she’s not interested I’m not surprised.
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
Been talking with her for over a month. She was very invested and seemingly dtf, and then dropped off the face of the earth after we had made plans. I reopened and she replied with at least some indication that she felt bad. But this is driving me crazy bc she's so hot. Sc included. Should I hit her with "look lmk if you're not interested I can stop trying." ? Bc that's what I'm leaning towards. SCs are backwards sorry!
22 Posts (+6), 78 Cmts (+27)
