Been talking with her for over a month. She was very invested and seemingly dtf, and then dropped off the face of the earth after we had made plans. I reopened and she replied with at least some indication that she felt bad. But this is driving me crazy bc she's so hot. Sc included. Should I hit her with "look lmk if you're not interested I can stop trying." ? Bc that's what I'm leaning towards.
SCs are backwards sorry!
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She isn't interested man. You can't come back from quadruple texts with no response
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You seem more invested (like appearing more invested) hence she lost interest. like saying "suspense is killing me.." I know what you were trying but she didn't get it lol. made you look needy. also when she said "when you wanna hang" u should have went with "whats you're schedule like".
I'd go with "if you're not into this.." line or u can try this Alex line too "You're lack of respect for my time is a turn off..." (i forgot the full line tho LOL)
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Thank you for the help! Yes we had established earlier that we were gonna kick it on Tuesday. It always sucks having an imbalance of investment and I sensed that, I totally agree. I'll probably go with one final takeaway and give up lol. I've been focusing more on cold approach lately anyhow.