Girl I cold approached said she “wants to get to know me better first” before meeting. I met her in the library and we had a nice chat and flirted a bit. She texts me but she takes a day to respond like how tf as I supposed to get to know her like this? It was going well so I went for the close because I wanted to get things moving forward, then she gave this objection. Should I try to get her on the phone? She can’t expect me to wait days for her to respond and also expect to get to know me, not to mention thru texting. At this point I might just move on and focus on other more down girls. Any ideas?
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"How can we if we are going at a pace of 1text/day?"
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She lost some interest, because you said you drive lambo. I know you're joking but it came out cheesy. Also fitting her into your schedule seems like you are trying too hard. With last text she gave you second chance. So from here on build some comfort and flirt and then ask her out again. I'd respond with what do you wanna know about me
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I'd just say something like
"I feel you can only really get to know someone in person but for sure what do you wanna know"
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Ah that’s really good, I didn’t see this but ended up saying “what do you want to know?”