Feminist alert. She will be a pain in your ass. 100%.

Don't text her again for a few days. Ball is clearly in her court.

Nothing physical happened as I didn't escalate. We just walked, grabbed coffee. We hung out for about 90 mins. I did have a 2nd date scheduled right after so I abruptly ended the date when I saw the time. I'm thinking that might have rubbed her the wrong way.

thanks

Just shoot straight with her and ask her out on a specific day, if she doesn't make it easy, move on. Plenty more out there.

Yep, she's in her 40's. Thanks

Build more excitement for her. If she's hot she has her pick of many guys. Give her a reason to want to pick you. Send of a photo of you doing something cool. Don't text her back for a couple of days or a week. You're busy and you don't have time to chase.

Most importantly, remember hot girls are everywhere. When I give less of a fuck than the girl does, I have much better results. The moment she picks up on neediness or she feels that you're chasing her, her buying temp will drop like a rock. The one who cares the least wins.

Yeah, thanks for the feedback. I'm gonna try anyway :)