Some crazy shit happened the other day. I just woke up and I’m getting coffee at a counter, asocial mood, headphones in,bundled up for winter weather, back facing the rest of the store and all of a sudden this absolutely stunning girl quickly comes up to me, reaches over to grab something in front of me, looks straight in my eyes and smiles. I was startled and I say “hey how are you” she says “good how are you” pretty basic but the way she acted and her voice tone told me it was on.. she pays at the counter and I’m behind her and run out while she’s getting in her car. She’s smiling with her mouth wide open the whole time and the first thing she says is “do you come here a lot? I can’t believe I’ve never seen you before” she asks where we live she puts her # in my phone the whole interaction was phenomenal. We both leave for work and I text her when I get home. Starts off good.. quickly dissipated and I get left on read when I go for the date. I run into her today (2 days later) she apologizes for not answering and says she’s been busy. Convo is ok and at one point I suggests meeting at the bar next door that night. Too busy. Another night this week. Too busy. I tell her to Hmu when she figures it out. That interaction was meh.. they keep happening in the morning before coffee and before work and I’ve been walking on eggshells prior to this because I keep blowing amazing interactions with texting. Like 12 in a row that should be layups

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Build more excitement for her. If she's hot she has her pick of many guys. Give her a reason to want to pick you. Send of a photo of you doing something cool. Don't text her back for a couple of days or a week. You're busy and you don't have time to chase.

Most importantly, remember hot girls are everywhere. When I give less of a fuck than the girl does, I have much better results. The moment she picks up on neediness or she feels that you're chasing her, her buying temp will drop like a rock. The one who cares the least wins.

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I’m having a lot of frustration because I knew my approach was suboptimal before meeting this chick and made a conscious effort to avoid my usual texting pitfalls but I play it “safe” by going back to the framework I learned from the London daygame model and it hasn’t been working for me lately.

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I guess the thing driving me fucking mad is that I can’t escape this issue.. I know about this issue and it’s fucking with my head so I make a conscious effort to take a break and this girl inserts herself into that space and then it still goes nowhere. I’ve been doing approaches for months and I have loads of interactions that went awesome, high investment with text and it goes nowhere and I thought stepping back for a month and getting my mind off it might help and then this shit happens and now ima have to run into this chick everyday

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