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Hi, I matched with a girl on bumble. She was very high interest from the get go. I moved the conversation to texting to set the date. There are 2 logistics issues: She works in healthcare with a busy schedule She lives almost 45m away After trying to set the date on the same day, it wasn't going to work because of logistics, I suggested specific time and day for the date. She hits me with "sure I'm down to meet but let's play it by ear because my schedule is crazy honey" I felt a little bit none compliance so I decided to do a take away " whoa! Slow down with cute name calling..we are not there yet ;)" After that her mood changed, texted briefly back and forth and then today I texted her happy Friday meme today but she hasn't responded. I'm not in including the screenshots because they are not in English. Now since the date is next day and she hasnt responded, what's the best course of action: A) ignore for a week and try to re engage B) hit her with "did you pick a cute outfit for tonight?" C) Call her D) ignore altogether and move on

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Vibed with this chick. Very high investment. She got hesitant when hard closing. Then slowly stopped responding. I know where I fucked up by trying to qualify a couple of times. Waited then re engaged. What's the best final response here?( Screenshots are not the entire convo but to show how the vibe changed)

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Hey, thanks to Alex videos which helped my text game immensely, I have identified two issues: Sometimes my bantering comes a bit too strong or too sarcastic. Not vibing long before going for the number close I like how Alex makes bantering/vibing seems so calibrated, simple and charasmatic. What is good mindset/frame to adopt when doing that? In the following screenshots, I'm chatting with a flight attendant (one of her pics, she is sitting on wing of plane), we bantered a bit and I went for soft close. However, I felt the vibe is not there yet and thus decided to banter even further and maker her qualify at the same time. Not sure where to go from here. What do you guys think?

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Hey players, Matched with this chick on tinder, she has more than average investment. There's my attempt to sexualize but she didn't bite as I hoped; only liking the message. Should I soft close her at this point? Or what's the best way to progress?

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