Hi,
I matched with a girl on bumble. She was very high interest from the get go. I moved the conversation to texting to set the date.
There are 2 logistics issues:
She works in healthcare with a busy schedule
She lives almost 45m away
After trying to set the date on the same day, it wasn't going to work because of logistics, I suggested specific time and day for the date.
She hits me with "sure I'm down to meet but let's play it by ear because my schedule is crazy honey"
I felt a little bit none compliance so I decided to do a take away " whoa! Slow down with cute name calling..we are not there yet ;)"
After that her mood changed, texted briefly back and forth and then today I texted her happy Friday meme today but she hasn't responded.
I'm not in including the screenshots because they are not in English.
Now since the date is next day and she hasnt responded, what's the best course of action:
A) ignore for a week and try to re engage
B) hit her with "did you pick a cute outfit for tonight?"
C) Call her
D) ignore altogether and move on
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yup. Whatever you sensed was quite wrong. Could just be a word she commonly uses to refer to someone
17 Posts (+5), 49 Cmts (+8)
Well, my two cents on this case.
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Big things can come from re engaging a Convo, one time I ended up in a great two year relationship with a girl who I had to re engage at first.
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I personally don't get the Happy Friday meme, i feel like its super corny.
I would wait if I were you. Double texting is only a good idea if a couple of days have gone by
7 Posts (+6), 51 Cmts (+14)
cut your losses and move on. she was flirting with you and you rejected her harshly so just move on. next time a girl flirts with you, flirt back.