Bantering mindset question (screenshots attached)
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Hey, thanks to Alex videos which helped my text game immensely, I have identified two issues:
- Sometimes my bantering comes a bit too strong or too sarcastic.
- Not vibing long before going for the number close
I like how Alex makes bantering/vibing seems so calibrated, simple and charasmatic. What is good mindset/frame to adopt when doing that?
In the following screenshots, I'm chatting with a flight attendant (one of her pics, she is sitting on wing of plane), we bantered a bit and I went for soft close. However, I felt the vibe is not there yet and thus decided to banter even further and maker her qualify at the same time. Not sure where to go from here.
What do you guys think?
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I think that conversation flowed towards setting up a date and you didn't ask. You were talking about wine, how much she can chug down. Next thing I'd say is something along the lines of her having to prove that when you see each other. Bit more banter and then ask "What's your schedule like"
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