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Hey guys, I'm going to Brazil, Colombia and Peru next month and wanted to ask if you recommend any other dating apps apart from Tinder. I've been using OkCupid as it allows you to change your location to meet some girls before I go, but are there any other apps that are very popular in these 3 countries? Do you recommend getting Tinder Gold now and using Tinder Passport? Are there any other apps I can change my location for free, apart from OkCupid? Any other tips for these 3 countries will be appreciated! In particular, I'll be in in Sao Paulo, Rio de Janeiro for the carnaval then Colombia - Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena and then Peru). Around a month in each country. Thanks

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See screenshots The comment about the rum was due to one of her photos. And the comment about the speech therapy was because she had that as her work in her bio. How would you respond?

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So when I use that line, I sometimes get some replies which I don't exactly know how to respond to in the best possible way. Some examples: ruin me? why would you want to ruin me? should I worry? depends which way you mean / in what way? how would you ruin me? what do you mean? How would you guys respond to these?

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Girl randomly brings up the conversation starter from my profile ("All I ask is that you wanna hit PRs and dry scoop pre workout with me"). How do I respond to her last message? I'm thinking something like: "Hmm it might be. Hopefully you make it up in other areas." "Hmm it might be. That's on the top of my priority list." P.s. there was a misunderstanding on my side when I thought she didn't live in London because I thought she just changed her location, hence why she said that "I can't ruin her even if I wanted to".

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Alright boys, imma need some serious help here. This girl is smoking hot, just my type and was extremely receptive and well invested up until 2 days ago. As you can see from the screenshots, she was literally responding within minutes, most of the times. Did I do something wrong? I know some of my questions and answers were quite platonic but she just seemed interested in the smaller/boring details so I calibrated to that. My question now is, what's the best way to re-engage? I really want to meet her as she genuinely seems like a cool interesting girl and plus she is smoking hot. My thoughts on re-engaging now are: Busy weekend? No? Appreciate it

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Matched with this girl on tinder a couple weeks back. Few message exchanges there. Seemed receptive. Bantered about some memes. Then one night she texts me on tinder to go and fuck her but the next morning she said she didn't mean to send that and how she was drunk and horny. Anyway, I then tried to soft close and get her number but she told me she was in Brazil for 10 days and asked for my insta. I told her I deactivated it but she insisted. In the end, I gave it to her. The screenshots are from our convo on ig. My questions are, is my texting ok so far, how can I take the convo more sexual and when and how should I be looking to re-engage? I assume she's coming back in the next few days. I thought of sending her the Ryan gosling happy Friday pic tomorrow and then asking her when she's back. Maybe something like "so when are we splitting that bottle of wine we talked about?" Or should I soft close again before asking when? Appreciate it

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Me: Funny tinder bio Me: You ain't too bad either Her: Ain't too bad he said skull emoji What would you say would be a good reply to this text? My idea was something like "Haha, I'll save the compliments for our romantic date"

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Don't really understand. Soft closed this girl from bumble and upon asking her to text me she asks "why?". Any advice?

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Girl from tinder asked for my ig but I'd prefer to get her number and text on WhatsApp. I don't really use my ig and so haven't developed it much, not many followers, only a few posts, etc. What do you suggest? Should I give it anyway, given she's interested?

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Hey everyone. What would you say the best approach is to go about when messaging girls for example from Tinder directly on their Instagram without matching? Does it look to needy? I've gone with the "Hey, can I be honest?" line, to which she responded with "yeah?". What would you think the optimal approach would be? Do I tell her I saw her profile on Tinder and she seems like my type or do I just go about it as usual without mentioning Tinder?

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