Long story short, I went to a girl's place from Tinder for our first date to see a movie. We picked some horror movie, she started cuddling, I went for a kiss, then on the neck, tried to sexualize further. Everything was okay (butt slaping, grabbing, playing, kissing her tits), but she never let me get my hands near her pussy. My mistake was that I didn't fully adress this and figure out what her objection was, she told me that doesn't do it on the first date but proceeded to grap my dick, kissing, sexualizing, we slept together, but nothing happened. On the morning I was in the rush for work, but i cuddled a bit, all was nice. What do you think i should do on the second time ( i already closed for a second date, again at hers), and how to adress this stuff that she's sexualizing so much but doesn't let me near her pants? I don't want to come off as buttheart, but there's always a chance for some silly answer like "I don't do this so early". And, if this does happen, can I say that i dont want her to tease me before "the day" ?
Posts by Emin Kha
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Hey guys! Can you recommend movie to watch on the date at her place? I don't know generally which movies to choose, some say horror, some say 50 shades of gray ( hate this movie, willing to watch if makes sence), some say something boring, some say netflix woke series. I am thinking something like "Eyes wide shut" with Tom Cruise
This girl I matched on Tinder few days ago, seems semi interested in me but hard to make plans with. I tried to soft close for like 2 days, today, finally, she agreed we should meet, so I went to locking up a date. I said “What are your plans on the weekend?” And she answered “Idk, I’m not planning that far ahahah”. Kind of strange considering weekend starts tomorrow night. I’m thinking about “Pick a date” but seems too harsh, because I had compliance. What should I text?
