Long story short, I went to a girl's place from Tinder for our first date to see a movie.
We picked some horror movie, she started cuddling, I went for a kiss, then on the neck, tried to sexualize further.
Everything was okay (butt slaping, grabbing, playing, kissing her tits), but she never let me get my hands near her pussy.
My mistake was that I didn't fully adress this and figure out what her objection was, she told me that doesn't do it on the first date but proceeded to grap my dick, kissing, sexualizing, we slept together, but nothing happened. On the morning I was in the rush for work, but i cuddled a bit, all was nice.
What do you think i should do on the second time ( i already closed for a second date, again at hers), and how to adress this stuff that she's sexualizing so much but doesn't let me near her pants? I don't want to come off as buttheart, but there's always a chance for some silly answer like "I don't do this so early". And, if this does happen, can I say that i dont want her to tease me before "the day" ?