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Comments by Sam D
Joined 5y agoThat's a good sign. She's definitely interested. I would stock with the message above. When she asks, you can reply with something slightly sexual since she liked your strengths. EX: sexy nerdy glasses, yoga pants... or whatever unique thing she has on her photos. Good luck man!
It's difficult to say without seeing what you said on your profile. I would play the weakness angle, but not in a question. Maybe: I see you do have my weaknesses...etc.
You can always re-engage, but I would suggest that you move on. Don't waste your time on low interest girls.
Hey man, here is my feedback:
- You missed an opportunity at the beginning when she liked your comment about drawing comics. You could've riffed off on that.
- The convo is way too friendly. It's not emotionally engaging.
- The convo is a bit long. If you notice Alex's text is always sharp and short. Girls love mystery. Keep it short and simple.
- You can reengage as she might've been busy during Chritmas.
Good luck!
Hey man, I would say the profile is generally good, but here are some pointers:
- You have a couple of photos with closed body language (photo 2 and 5). It doesn't show a lot of confidence.
- You're overly smiling in all the photos. I haven't tested this extensively, but I believe it gives an overly friendly, non-threatening vibe, which is good for building comfort, but not so much for attraction.
- You have mental health awareness as an interest. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but remember that on Tinder, girls decide in a second. This might give them the wrong idea.
- In photo 4, you have a good open body language, but you're hunched over. I would go for Alex's pose on the coach when he makes his videos. His chest is always front while he's laying back.
Hope this helps.

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Hey man, 5/9 is still good closing rate. I'm not sure which type of girls you're pulling, but there are some girls who wouldn't have sex on the first night even though they came to your place. The fact that they are heavily making out with you means you've done things right. Other reason can be: you're coming up too strong, you're desperate to close (they can sense it), you're reactive, they have a period, they have other dudes in orbit...etc. In any case, don't overthink it. Just make sure you do proper game/escalation. It's a numbers game!