Hello PWF, let me introduce myself. I already know my game is awful. My SMV isn't holding me back as much as my mediocre real life game but my awful text game really kills me. Please criticize me, don't hold back. This is as far as I've got with a conversation on dating apps with a girl I was actually attracted to. I have gotten farther with others but its girls I wouldn't actually hook up with once I realize they don't really look like their pics Please understand I am not particularly attached to this girl, its just that its pretty exemplary I think of what goes wrong in my text game habitually Things I think went wrong: 1)when she asked why I was her type, I totally chickened out and went for a non-sexual answer, in general I have fears of coming off as sexual and its really hard to shake 2) WAY too invested, massive wall of text, idk, I just got really excited and seemed to have scared her off, and probably should have not messaged her on christmas like as if she was my gf or something (I have problems being needy) things I'm not sure about 1) How would I have sexualized this? Idk but I got vibes she was more sexual from her profile and I chickened out. I'm actually really kinky and dominant but have trouble getting this across. 2)what are some examples of things I can say to reignited this conversation? I feel like I overinvested and I should wait at least 2 weeks before texting again to negate needyness vibes and keep it simple, but not sure how I can recover after texting her like that.

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Hey man, here is my feedback:

  • You missed an opportunity at the beginning when she liked your comment about drawing comics. You could've riffed off on that.
  • The convo is way too friendly. It's not emotionally engaging.
  • The convo is a bit long. If you notice Alex's text is always sharp and short. Girls love mystery. Keep it short and simple.
  • You can reengage as she might've been busy during Chritmas.

Good luck!

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Thank you, makes sense.

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