I match with girls who want long term relationships and I want the same. I'm not good at the highly sexual, ultra dominant game and I'm perfectly fine with just non sexual flirting, we frame, and teasing. My issue is I can only get there circumstantially and then I do okay. I suck at asking questions about a girl's bio and coming up with general comments that take the conversation in a flirtatious or banter direction. Any advice, preferably examples?