My vibe looking at the full context of the conversation is they liked the idea of finding a guy but they realize they don't feel like actually meeting up with a stranger. One girl even explicitly mentioned how shy she was but my game was way worse then so I was like "no problem lets hold off" and asked her a question about a profile pick and her account was deleted the next day

Well, girls mostly do that because they get get too overwhelmed with constant matches and messages and they just delete it. I don't think many girls are just straight getting bfs that quickly