My vibe looking at the full context of the conversation is they liked the idea of finding a guy but they realize they don't feel like actually meeting up with a stranger. One girl even explicitly mentioned how shy she was but my game was way worse then so I was like "no problem lets hold off" and asked her a question about a profile pick and her account was deleted the next day

I like 3 and 4 they look like a moment captured organically. I read somewhere girls statistically find photos attractive where the guy is looking away from the camera like 3 and 4 and not smiling. Probably a good idea for pick one but I wouldn't overdo that. Pwf has a good video on photo ideas and dos an donts. Like another commenter said I'd get some activity photos where your doing something fun but your face is clearly visible, and you are cropped and centered

Here's an example where I'm not given much to work with and her profiles is just selfies and a generic bio. I know this is dog shit game but how should have I handled this or what's the next step that doesn't involve talking about rough sex or suggestive comments about eating her out? I prefer we frame, banter, light sarcasm, joking about or romance, getting jacked for our date, cuddling but I'm not great with kinky shit or even sexual innuendos I'll just be creepy.