Lately I have been trying a few things and it's not working out. Either I lose the frame battle or I write something in the spur of moment and I mess up. So before any of that, i want to try to ask for help and see how this is going to turn out with someone else's help. With every screenshot I'll post what I was thinking of replying and why. With this one, I wanted to put her in the adventurous/spontaneous frame, like Are you always this spontaneouse Yes/Always Oh, I thought you were the nice church going girl (basically to make her qualify/put her in the box so she qualifies) She's 20 all her pics are wild and partying and concerts.
Posts by Desi Jedi
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Matched, she's cute and attractive. At first she didn't get my sarcasm but I continued. Kinda stuck here.
I had a stressful day at work. I just wanted to sleep and not go out but this girl started giving IOIs. Said she's going out, I thought I'd meet her outside but I had no energy or motivation to go out only to get this girl. She starts hitting me up, I jumped the boat and invited her over and it went sideways. I want to know How and where Alex would've sent different messages Do you punish noncompliance when she seems DTF Should I've pushed it further that night. Should I have sext here? Which message did I exactly fucked up. What to do next? I was going to send 'Wow, your friends really don't want you to be eaten out?' or 'Keep up this attitude, its just adding to your spankings' I remember Alex's youtube video where he said if she's dtf you should make it happen or some other guy would fuck her so I was just trying to get her over.
Matched with a girl on feeld. Two messages in she's already sending nudes. I don't know if she's just trying to get off or is trying to bait me. Should I fall for it and sext or make her chase. I have had this in the past where girls initiate sexting and I continue and later they unmatch once done. She's from Michigan and visiting my city in the weekend.
I have Bumble Gold so I can see the likes and match with them whenever. Usually girls are very bad at opening, I've lost countless matches because of this but I was curious as to what time might be the best to match with them. I usually do it at night so if they open the app at night they can see it. Like my point is if you match with a girl at 4pm and she does not check bumble at evening/night, the match will disappear while she's in office the next day. So anyone has any other ideas/suggestions on this?
I have a lot of old leads still on my snap and insta. I post the stories regularly and they check everyone of them. Whenever I reply to their stories they revert back, we have had some conversations, sometimes they send me snaps. But as soon as I invite them over or even try to take them to coffee, it falls apart. Either they dont respond or just say they're busy, i dont try to reschedule coz ofcourse I have tried that too in the past, it goes no where and then it looks like me chasing to get them and they just rejecting. What'd I do? Should I cut them off? Should I unfriend them. I have a man to woman frame with them, it's not friendly. The problem here was I never punished non-compliance because I was getting other chicks I didn't wanna come off as butt hurt. So what should I do next, should I continue doing my stuff and ignore them continue doing my stuff and keep re-engaging ocassionally jsut tell them it was nice getting to know them and block them jsut tell them it was nice getting to know them and unfriend them
