Thanks man, I can take it from here.
Is there any reason why you wouldnt go very sexual here? Is it just for keep it simple and straightforward since shes already pretty compliant?

I think this is a perfect example of the majority of my conversations where the girl keeps replying but doesnt show exitement.
Feel I sould go with a big push here. Suggestions?

Gotcha! Btw what do you guys think about this new swipe night thing? I havent seen the videos at all but Im getting a lot of matches rn

• Yea haha :P
• I could probably handle what you got haha 😏

Just met this girl on tinder, she lives far away, but id like to see how things play out.

I know I should sexualize here, just not sure what to say.

Met her on tinder. This is pretty much after I have opened her.
If I did not have any help I would probably say something like "Finally someone that understands me. Lets engage in intelectual discussions over a wine bottle (devil face)"

What do you guys suggest?

How often do you swipe on dating apps? Is there a best day of the week to get matches to set up dates at the end of the week/weekend?

I have trouble sexualizing the interaction and a lot of it comes from my belief that if you’re meeting up from Tinder it is implied that you’re both looking for sex.

How important is it to establish a sexual vibe? Isn’t there an underlying assumption that if you meet up through Tinder it is for sex? Wouldn’t you just want to get her to meet up so you can escalate sexually in person? Or more than “establishing the sexual frame” is it more to for making her horny so it is easier for her to agree to come over?

Will this be open to general questions as well?

I ended up suggesting a better place, and she was very down. Problem solved.

From talking to other natural and advanced friends of mine the main takeaways were:

1. You dont necesarilly need to have sex right away, it depends on the girl and on how your personalities mesh, but as long as youre moving the interaction forward and each time escalating a bit that is good enough. Dont freak out if it takes time to lay a girl, some girls are just like that.

2. The logistics are not completely in my favor, so only do this type of stuff if you genuinelly enjoy hanging out with the girl and you wanna see were things go.