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Dating apps

Hey guys, Beside the big three, what other dating apps are out there that work or at least change things a little? Thanks!

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How should I continue here

This looks super straightforward but I don’t know how to continue. I was thinking on going for the closing with the wine and joke with it. What do you guys recommend?

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Cold after asking for schedule

Trying to close this girl from hinge. I asked for feedback on the text and we all said it was fine. I was thinking on re-engaging tomorrow-Monday if I get no answer. Maybe a “if that works?” Or “if you’re still down?” Not really worried if I don’t close it, but just curious of why girls just disappear like this. Thanks!

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Hinge text so far

I’ve been on and off the dating apps so I was wondering if you guys could give me a feedback on this? She hasn’t got back to me on the schedule but I don’t think I messed it up. Thanks all

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How to reengage after 2 months?

I went out with a girl twice and we laid after the second date. I was aiming to see her before leaving for a one month trip but we couldn’t set a date. I never texted her back and neither she texted me after. Is it dead after two months or is it possible to reengage?

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She opened me but I can’t close

She opened me for drinks and we couldn’t schedule something. I opened again and, she answers and then nothing. It’s dead or something else I could try?

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She set the date

First time this happens to me. I don’t know if this a scam and I’m getting kidnapped or is this for real lol. She’s from Europe so I don’t if European women are this direct. What do you guys think?

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Asking for schedule leads sometimes to ghosting

Sometimes after I ask for the schedule, they stop responding even if I reengage days later. I’m letting this one sit maybe until tomorrow/Wednesday and send an “It’s not a trick question” or “ Don’t think too hard now” but any suggestions or better way to approach?

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How do you set the date straight to her place?

I don’t live by myself, so it’s pretty hard for me to bring a girl over. Usually, we go for a little date, and that’s cool. How can you be direct without sound pushy and ask if her place is an option for some drinks instead of going out?

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I’m getting almost no likes

I’m struggling a lot to get likes on tinder and bumble. Recently no new likes on bumble for almost a month and one every once in a while for tinder. I don’t know if it’s the profile, pics, or shadowban.

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