Asking for schedule leads sometimes to ghosting
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5y ago
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47 Posts (+11), 62 Cmts (+8)
Sometimes after I ask for the schedule, they stop responding even if I reengage days later. I’m letting this one sit maybe until tomorrow/Wednesday and send an “It’s not a trick question” or “ Don’t think too hard now” but any suggestions or better way to approach?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yeah man, that means the girl is not serious about meeting up. So, think of it as a positive. Because you saved yourself time from having to banter with her further. Both of the texts you suggested would work as well
47 Posts (+11), 62 Cmts (+8)
It’s usually smooth sail if they want to meet. I thought she was down because she responded well and pretty fast tbh. I’ll send one of those texts tomorrow/Wednesday and see what happens. If not, as you said, time saved and her loss jajaja. Thanks Alex
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This. When you start getting enough matches, you'll find a good amount of text conversations end up like this. Women are extremely fickle and unreliable on dating apps, sometimes its personal other times it's not.
I've found even if you try to reengage and reschedule, she's gonna do the same thing. Classic attention whore/time waster as Alex said, don't even waste time analyzing it