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Last Thurs went on a date with a really attractive college girl. Vibe was good, conversation flowed, we flirted, bantered, flowed to sexual topics. There were a couple things I feel I could have done better... like qualifying her more, escalating, leading more, etc. but on the whole I feel it was a pretty solid date. We didn't have sex or even kiss, though : / I gave her a light kiss on the cheek when we parted ways at the end of the date. I already know what y'all hard core fuckboys are gonna say - we didn't have sex, so it's pretty much a done deal that she'll ghost. But I don't know. I'm not 100% certain that with a little persistence I couldn't at least get a second date. See screenshot - I texted her the day after with the remark about the comedians. She responded pretty soon after. Then I texted her again a few hours later "I just remembered..." (she'd mentioned she never had Cajun food before). No response. At the risk of hearing exactly what I already expect y'all will say... I need some feedback. I honestly don't know whether to follow up or leave it. Just because we didn't get physical on the first date doesn't disqualify trying for a second date imho. Would love get some feedback soon as I don't wanna wait too long to lock down the second date. Thanks y'all

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Hi y'all - I started out strong with this girl but I think the "working girl" comment brought down the energy/tension. Wondering how I should proceed form here. Any feedback / suggestions very much welcome. Thanks!

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I've been texting this girl I met last weekend. We've been flirting and she said she would love to come and visit me (she lives about 2.5 hours away). Normally not what I'm looking for, but hey, it's practice. When I made a vaguely sexual comment when talking about staying in bed today "most fun I can have with my clothes on rn" she shoots back with laughing emojis and "So are you just trying to hook up or what?" What are some effective responses for questions like this? Thanks y'all!

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Hi y'all - I'm new to the Playing with fire community. Wanted to ask a general question... I just got back on Tinder, but I have more (and better quality) matches on Hinge. The issue I keep running into is, the conversation will start off strong, she'll respond quickly, and then all of a sudden, for no apparent reason, she'll slow responding or stop altogether. I try to revive it by following up with some lines from Alex. Sometimes they reengage but most of the time it doesn't last. I'll include some screenshots here of a few convos. Hopefully from these you can see the kind of thing that's going on. Any wisdom woud be much appreciated!!

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