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Comments by John Doe

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No real time as they all have their own schedules, but Tinder says 6-10PM is usually the pattern when people are on the app. From my experience, when they match with you that's likely the short time window you'll see them on that app. I open them after about a minute or so and then reasonably mirror their texting cadence. If they move fast I soft close and then hard close immediately after and get the number. The pro to this is you got them off the app and you don't have to wait on their response or potentially have them chat with other guys. The con is you lack investment from her so you need to build it quickly after you have her number or she will ghost you.

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6 Posts (+11), 6 Cmts (+2)

An update on this. I think part of this is to due with Memorial day weekend. I ran more volume, had 5 matches in in the past couple of days who are all going out of town for the weekend. Can't compete against plans like those.

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added screenshots to the thread

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6 Posts (+11), 6 Cmts (+2)

Here's some examples that didn't move forward. A few others were openers of similar variations that had no response. Timing on the reply does become an issue for me since I do get busy from time to time.

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Moving isn’t the best idea for the next few years, I’m locked in a mortgage and would have to rent it out on top of finding a second place to rent. If you plan on buying especially in NYC you’ll have to consider an area that best matches the lifestyle you want to live. Lower East Side/East Village/Williamsburg for example would be the best possible option if you wanted to emulate the wine at your place close. They all have densely populated bars/clubs and are all with a reasonable distance of each other. As long as the distance to pull is short enough to make it feel spur of the moment that would be best.

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This helps, thanks. I just now went through two different situations back to back that highlighted my issues, which i'll post on a separate thread soon.

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