Hey guys,
For context, I'm a virgin and have fear around messing around and sex. My original goal was to fuck a girl from the club since it feels more anonymous and easier. Had a girl in my bed 3 separate times doing this but couldn't get hard twice and had other issues the third time. But now I'm just doing online dating and trying to lose viriginity that way.
I had a date with a girl almost 2 weeks ago from a dating app. We got drinks and towards the end I asked if she wanted to come to my place and "watch a movie". She said no and some random excuse to why not, but I knew she was attracted to me and is down to fuck at some point. The next morning she texted that she liked me and wants to hang out again. But I'm just scared to hit her up to hang out now. Both because I'm a virgin and also because I'd have to invite her somewhere in the same area we went the first time since I don't have a car.
I just have alot of shit in my head about this. Any tips from someone who's been through similar situation?