you think you could you link that vid?

yeah man thats the only way is to just keep at it. My goal is at least one new first date every week (with second dates etc in there too). I've had 5 first dates so far this semester and definitely feel more competent and calm now compared the first one, where I thought I was gonna die on my walk there lol. Just gotta figure out this second date shit and have sex, and I know after that its gonna be butter.

My issue is right now I just don't know what to do on the second date. Idk what people usually do in terms of location and what not. My go to first date is drinks or coffee but what after that. Sounds retarded but I don't know how people are supposed to hang out? And about the same area issue, I'm just embarrassed that I dont have a car and it's hard for me to admit it - so I've been trying to lie about it to girls.

And about the ed, I've gotten a half chub several times now when the girl was touching me or just close to me on first date or in clubs, but I still have that fear that I won't get hard when its time to have sex. And also an insecurity about my dick plays into that. Both those combined make this difficult. I'll have to think about whether to get viagra again. I'm not sure about how effective it is for me since I'm healthy, young, and have good blood flow. And the times I did try, I didn't feel like it just gave me an uncontrollable errection.