awesome advice thanks bro

Hm.. imagine if you tried bringing up such a boundary in the first date, wouldnt it scare the girl a bit? I feel like investment has to be built, sort of how you described in your video of how you get girls to have a one way open relationship with you.
Also, just out of curiosity, doesn't it botter you her having male friends?
But I would love if you made a video explaining how to manage boundaries and how to act when girls "test you" by talking about male friends, ex partners, guys that tried hitting on her..

Yea totally agree with you thats why it ended. What I will try doing with the next girl I plan on taking serious is in the stage where I am not her boyfriend I am going to be laid back and try to be non chalant when she talks about other guy friends and stuff like that but once she wants us to get in a relationship I will tell her that I can't get in a relationship with a girl that has guy friends. Sure, she can interact with guys in the day to day life which is something inevitable but the thought of my girlfriend having guy friends just makes me feel weird.

Yup. I didn't go to this forum for a few weeks, but it was not looking good for sure.
She ended things with me a week after that (I had went on a solo trip that lasted a week when I wrote this).
It really is time to restart the roster.
I am confident im approaching beautiful girls and I have my life pretty much in order for my age and by my experiences I can say confidently I am good with women, however I am really not good at managing this in relationships. It really is what I need to focus the most and learn. I think taking a more laid back chill approach to things like you describe you do would work the best.

I met her in real life, and got her insta and wanted to move things to whatsapp

ask something relating to the conversation you had preferably or the environment you were both in

just say hey with an emoji

After i asked what her availability was, she said 1 day and half after: now its hard because ill work till tuesday.
I think im not going to respond and just wait if she reengages

Yes sir, Ill let you know after how it went
Thanks!

Damn thats actually smart af. Will try on next opportunity. Thank you