Hey guys, I've just moved from the very rural midwest to just outside of Nyc, last week. I got 1 date from tinder, but we were on very different wavelengths. A couple girls have also flaked. I'd like to have casual fun, hookups, maybe FWB or something longer, but more of an emphasis on the casual/hookup part. This is my profile so far: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-K4ysUvYi5k I've watched Alex/PWF on and off for a couple years, and finally trying to put it into practice! Please give me any criticism on the profile, or new photos I should do - and what to do with my bio. Again, I want casual fun only right now.
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I've watched PWF videos on the best tinder bio's Right now I'm traveling around the western USA, and want to merge one of the bio's that works with a good way of communicating that I'm traveling from NYC. What might be a good way to communicate this?
I've been traveling a lot recently across the central/western USA. I work off my laptop and generally go to colleges (I'm 24 so it works perfectly). The food isn't bad & really cheap and lots of cute girls & wifi so I can work. I've been approaching girls and getting an IG/# over half the time, but I get left on delivered/seen a lot. For example, this week I've approached 8 girls, gotten 5 IGs with a yes/maybe when I say I want to hangout. Usually I open pretty direct like "Hi my name is..." or "I thought you were cute & wanted to introduce myself". But, out of the 5 I got, none messaged me back. I think 2 were phone & 3 were IG. Most approaches are in the college food hall, library or on campus outside. My intention with these girls as I hop from city to city every week is to pretty much be a hookup, maybe hangout twice but nothing long-term. Maybe I don't communicate that well. I don't know if I'm shooting myself in the foot by being in a different place each week, I only have a couple days to make a date happen. Usually in person the approaches go very well, like 50-60% of the time getting a contact, and almost every rejection is very soft/sweet. Not sure what I need to change.
Not sure if this is good text game or not I'm new to tinder and really all this stuff. But ready to learn, firstly should I re-ask for the # and how if the answer is yes, 2 is this good banter overall?
