Cold approaching, getting #/IG but left on read

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J

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J

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I've been traveling a lot recently across the central/western USA. I work off my laptop and generally go to colleges (I'm 24 so it works perfectly). The food isn't bad & really cheap and lots of cute girls & wifi so I can work.
I've been approaching girls and getting an IG/# over half the time, but I get left on delivered/seen a lot.

For example, this week I've approached 8 girls, gotten 5 IGs with a yes/maybe when I say I want to hangout. Usually I open pretty direct like "Hi my name is..." or "I thought you were cute & wanted to introduce myself". But, out of the 5 I got, none messaged me back. I think 2 were phone & 3 were IG. Most approaches are in the college food hall, library or on campus outside.

My intention with these girls as I hop from city to city every week is to pretty much be a hookup, maybe hangout twice but nothing long-term. Maybe I don't communicate that well.

I don't know if I'm shooting myself in the foot by being in a different place each week, I only have a couple days to make a date happen. Usually in person the approaches go very well, like 50-60% of the time getting a contact, and almost every rejection is very soft/sweet. Not sure what I need to change.

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I don't think your intentions of hookups or longterm need to be communicated that clearly in person. You need to build value, get them to invest and then maybe have very sexual subcomms. If the girls aren't responding, it's just that you're not making a strong emotional impact

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J

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Do you have videos on making a stronger emotional impact? I don't know if my conversations are polarizing enough, it's more chit-chat

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